Inspiring creative solutions that help you move forward with clarity, success and joy!




  • Focus on your creative skills

  • Adapt to new stages of life 

  • Shift, clarify and prioritize your responsibilities 

  • Establish a successful routine for your art

  • Generate a positive influence in the world 

  • Build new relationships

  • Use your talents and skills to make a difference in community

  • Discover new directions

  • Value self and dreams

  • Focus on empowerment

  • Commit with enthusiasm to new directions

 EXTERNAL CHANGES and unexpected scenarios 



  • Address disruptions in daily routine

  • Assume new roles and responsibilities

  • Successfully reprioritize as you adjust 

  • Sort through complex family scenarios  

  • Create constructive communication patterns with siblings & parents & adult children 

  • Make successful decisions concerning loved ones with assurance and trust

  • Navigate eldercare systems 

  • Delegate responsibilities successfully

  • Ease confusion


As you navigate any of these scenarios of change and transition,

I will help you keep self care and stress management at the forefront.

I will help you develop ways to communicate with others to find solutions

I will help you honor your boundaries and time.


As a Certified Mediator and Certified Coach

I will prompt you to imagine new and different perspectives.

I will challenge you to think outside of the box.  

I offer fun and witty ways to find clarity as you create

your unique role whether as an

individual, member of family or active participant in community and world.


Together we will honor your whole being.

New Phase of Life

As evolving persons we need  to seize the moment       

to manifest a new project. We need to focus with dedication on new goals.  

Together we can create a strategy that feels empowering that 

creates new levels of clarity

and accomplishment in  important endeavors.

Caregiving Role in Aging or Illness

Sudden caregiving for elder parent or for other family members, can causes huge disruptions in our lives. 

We are often thrust into new roles, and new communication  patterns

with our partners, our parents our siblings , our children.


Together we can stay focused on immediate demands and new communication patterns. We can create calming routines that help when dealing with longterm crisis.


In the different stages of parenthood we are contantly shifting, clarifying and  prioritizing our responsibilities.


Together we can develop ways to ensure we successfully manage the unexpected, keep centered while focusing on the demands of family, and live life celebrating present moments.


Changes can be so demanding that they cause sleepless nights and constant worry.  

Together we can address ways to offer care to self, to solve problems in a non-adversarial way, to lessen stress.


Creative Focus

When we aspire to pursue a creative art  - whether a visual or  performance art,  or with a writing focus -  we create new projects and maintain deadlines for self or submission.

Together we can establish a successful routine that allows for productive joyful creativity and that allows for maintaining  boundaries and enthusiasm.

Confusing Times

As evolving persons we find ourselves suddenly with an empty nest or conversely with adult children in the home. We may have retired or recently relocated.  

Together we can create a strategy that will allow for exploration, for new ways of being, for an unfolding that gratifies, enriches, augments and supports our whole being. 

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A common thread through all my work has been my desire to protect integrity, to encourage a pause that allows for reinvigoration and thoughtful solutions, to think outside the box in planning and creating new projects, to resolve conflicts.  

I’m an ongoing volunteer mediator for a city community relations office. I’ve also worked as an advocate for children, representing them as guardian ad litem in divorce cases. I’ve edited testimonials for rescued victims of trafficking, and have worked to promote awareness and vigilance for anti-trafficking work.


Extensive travels include living in India and Europe as well as volunteering in a children’s home in Nepal. Business successes include being manager for a touring company, working as public relations spokesperson and actor for TV and Film.

I know first hand the complexity and disruptions of caregiving for elder family members.


Described as calming, fearless and focused with a sense of humor, I  have been married for 38 years and have two adult daughters.


ACC certified coach, NCDRC Certified Superior Court Mediator,  Reiki Master level 3, Graduate of Duke University



"Your coaching got me there! ....Pamela helped me manifest a residency. We created an action plan that allowed me to go to a new location and to develop my art unencumbered..I'd been dreaming about this for 30 yrs!"

client -Bozeman, MT